Bebeth

The 2nd blog is dedicated to my first child, Bethanie, we call her Bebeth sometimes. I decided to create one for her, as it is not fair if I only created one for her sister to be - Charmaine. This is to capture the precious moments and her milestones from now 15 mths till she grows up. Hope you enjoy it!

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Xiao Tian Cai



I bought this tool for the two, at first I was skeptical if I myself knew how to play or practice this. It cost me $30 only, Yu Dan teacher sold us quite cheap. I browsed the internet to look out for this and it was selling around $45 to $60.





Beth and Charmaine love to play this, and in fact they learned how to take turn to play it. This game is brain stimulating, I love this game as well. It trains the logical of the brain and at the same time to trigger the right brain. The key point of this whole game is to brush up the memory photographic ability. Citing from Wikipedia :"Eidetic memory, photographic memory, or total recall is the ability to recall images, sounds, or objects in memory with extreme accuracy and in abundant volume." In laymen term, it's simply "Extraordinary Memory". For sure if the children have this ability, they will probably do well in their study.








"Photographic memory is a rare element that is found in less than 10% of the population. It will often be found in children, and most of them will lose this ability by the time they become adults. The concept of photographic memory is so rare that some people don't believe it exists"




What is believed by some researchers is that photographic memory is a result of the brain processing and storing information in an abnormal manner. Many people believe that those who have photographic memories are fortunate. However, this may not be the case.




One of the problems with having a photographic memory is that you may absorb too much information, and you may have to deal with a lot of data that is irrelevant. Having to deal with large amounts of irrelevant data could reduce your ability to efficiently recall information. People who have photographic memories may also have a hard time forgetting things that they don't desire to remember. Humans are not designed to be mere databases which store tremendous amounts of information. Memory is only important when it can be used to recall information that is relevant. Being able to use your memory is much more important than simply being able to store information.




Monks who lived during the Middle Ages would enhance their memories by creating images in their minds which would allow them to store and use information that was important. It was not enough for them to just store and have access to large amounts of information. It was also important for them to use these images to create a number of connections between unrelated elements. A number of famous people were believed to have photographic memories, and some of them were Mozart and Claude Monet. However, there has been some controversy which has arisen on the topic of photographic memory.




Many professionals believe that the concept is a myth. A study was conducted on a number of chess Grandmasters, and while they are able to recall large amounts of information about positions, they performed like people who weren't masters when they were presented with chess piece positions that would not exist in a real world situation. At the same time, there has also been evidence to show that photographic memory is a real phenomenon. A woman who was studied by Charles Stromeyer was capable of remembering poetry that had been written in a different language, and she could recall the information years later.




Solomon V. Shereshevskii is another example of an individual who had memory capabilities that appeared to be photographic. He could memorize large amounts of words, and was capable of remembering them after many years had passed. While some believed that he had an unlimited photographic memory, it is very likely that he used a number of different memory techniques. In addition to this, a number of humans have been placed in the Guinness Book of Records for having abnormal memories. There have also been people with Asperger's syndrome who have demonstrated photographic memories as well.




The overall evidence for photographic memory is strong. However, it is not well understood. The brain of someone who has a photographic memory will store information in a manner which is much different than most people. It is likely that the perception of photographic memory that is viewed by most people is not quite accurate. While there are people who have extraordinary memories, it is unlikely that they are able to perfectly recall every piece of information that they are exposed to. It is likely that the debate for and against the existence of photographic memory will continue to rage on. Some savants have been known to have what appears to be a photographic memory, and the most notable example is Kim Peek





This Xiao Tian Cai may not serve exactly for Photographic Memory purpose, but it does certainly contain some levels in it, this can improve and strengthen the ability to remember, concentration and keep the brain sharp.



On top of Memory, these are believed to be benefits from Xiao Tian Cai.



Xiao Tian Cai (Memory Aid) Concept: small genius is wisdom was invoked 20 World ideological education of Jurists, wisdom and understanding of the authority of eminent scholars - Piaget (Jean Piaget) education and well-designed, learning through play in nurturing the child's cognitive, thinking and judgment capacity, and can also stimulate the child's observation, attention, reasoning and the ability to think, is built on the "savvy understandings" on the basis of a set of theoretical and practical beautifully parents teaching intelligent combination.



Capacity: involving language, mathematics, social, and other fields such as the comprehensive training and child care and more awareness of all kinds of wisdom.



The "mini-genius wisdom" from the answer tablets (12, the number is positive, the back is three different colors) plus 9 that card (an early age, in order, the three high-end group.) Components, including 135 units , 1620 practice.



Title cards in this painting-and answer a number of similar size plate at the bottom of the game map, each map has 12 small box, the box with the contents of the answer on the 12 figures correspond.




For reading age: Suitable for 2-8 years




The teaching aid pays great attention in the game process to raise child's JQ (judgment quotient), EQ (mood quotient), LQ (logical quotient), IQ (intelligence quotient), CQ (creativity quotient) and the operation strength and so on, promotes to enhance child's cognition, the ponder and judgment ability comprehensively, stimulates child's power of observation, the attention, the inference and the association strength.




Contents: - Included 9 different books (Beginner, Intermediate, Advance)















Friday, May 22, 2009

Her 4th Birthday

Time flies, my little baby is now 4! I have been telling her that she can not be sleeping with her daddy and mommy when she turned to 4. She understood that, but temporary she is still sleeping with us, till my mom and sis go back to Pekanbaru.
I took half day that day Wed 20 May 2009. Last Sunday, we went (me and her) to Hougang Mall just to shop the goodie bag things by bus. She was excited for sure. As to keep the party cost low, I know which shop to shop, yes, it's Value shop, which most things are priced at $1.05 or $2.00. Talking about birthday party cost, the most expensive thing is actually the cake itself for a small party to be held at childcare center. Unless I would want to throw a fancy birthday party, art birthday party or macdonald or other. Time is bad, so it's better to be cost conscious, not to spend on unnecessary things. We went to Bengawan Solo and ordered the 3D cake, this alone cost us $80 for no filling and 2 kg weight.














She chose this "Brownie Bear" herself, after so many choices. She learnt also the word "order", cause I said we needed to order, as usual out of her curiosity she asked "mommy what is order?"

On the night, we packed all the goodie bags with those snacks we bought from popular and Values shop with these two little gals. Beth can be a helper, unbelievable.....:p however Charmaine was more like a cheergal, but I did appreciate their involvement. That is also to teach them about team work and helping.

Having realised that the goodie bags I prepared on Sunday night were not enough for her N2 class which requires 22 + 1 Charmaine, I went to buy more again on Tuesday night. That same night I collected the cake.

Here are some pictures shot in her N2 class at Sunshine Kids childcare center. Her classmates liked the cake so much, as half of them asked for 2nd round of cake serving. :P but the two sisters did not even finish the piece of cake.


























I gave Lego - toy as her birthday present. She has been playing with blocks all the while and with this additional block toy, this will increase her creativity.


Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Her Bird House


She made herself and showed that to me.


What a beautiful and creative art!


Mother's day card




This is the card she made in the school for me.




Days before Mother's day

Days before the Mother's day which fell on the 2nd Sunday of May 10th, Bebeth has been repeating a few times what she was going to do / make for me. I guess the teacher in her school had been telling the children about what they were going to make for their mothers. Yes, they were going to make a Mother's day card. So days before at night before she slept, she kept telling me....mommy, i am going to make a card for you, and put lipstick on my lips and kiss the card, I love you.....Oh man, her mouth is sweeter than sugar and honey. If she was a guy, all girls will be swept over. ha..ha...Did I say before that she is very passionate girl, out of the blue, she can say ...I love you .....and kisses me all over my body....(my hands, my tummy, legs, and even buttock which I have to scold her not to do so). She is a very sensitive child too, she would say things like...I love you, not only today, but also tomorrow.

On Thursday, she has told Rona about making a card for me. She asked Rona not to tell me, it's a secret, and asked her to hide the card she made high up. She wanted to give me a surprise, that's what she said to Rona....hihih....she is very cute!

Well, these were days before...........just a thought of her preparing a card/gift for me really has made me so loved, and felt the most blessed and luckiest mother in the world.

This is the card she made by herself.